I wrote a piece the other day titled “Don’t Talk to Me” and when I was on Investopedia yesterday (check it out) I came across an article on the difference between Frugal and Cheap and thought

Damn I should have added Don’t talk to me if your Cheap.”

The article is outlined below

There’s a fine line between frugal and cheap. Frugal people understand that paying more doesn’t necessarily mean better value. People labelled as cheap wouldn’t pay a premium price regardless of the value.

Billionaire investor Warren Buffett is often labelled as frugal. Your neighbour, whose claim to fame is the fact that of all of his or her belongings were purchased at garage sales, is probably cheap. Here’s how to save money, but avoid being labelled cheap.

Frugal People Know When to Pay up

Cheap people only look at price. They believe that the only way to achieve value is to pay less but they fail to take into account other factors. Frugal people know that, sometimes, it’s best to pay up. A quality mattress may cost more, but the added support and ergonomics may help somebody with back pain. Paying the extra money for a pair of timeless jeans from a premium store may result in longer life and fewer signs of wear.

Cheap people may not be as skilled at managing their money as frugal people are. Let’s assume that a cheap person and a frugal person head into an appliance store to purchase a cooker. The cheap person would look for the lowest priced model; the frugal person would evaluate the energy efficiency and compare gas versus electric. He or she may research the model and read customer reviews. Before buying, frugal shoppers will look for rebates and sales at other stores. The better use of the money may be a higher-priced model, but cheap people may not see a need to research when the lowest price, basic model is in front of them.

Cheap People Think Everything Is Overpriced

You’ve been with this person. This is the individual who complains to everybody about the cost of everything. If you go to a restaurant, such people don’t understand why a burger is £10. If you take them to a concert, they complain about the price of the ticket. Even the chocolate bar at the petrol station is too much.

Frugal people may be thinking the same thing, but they understand how business works and that voicing it makes them sound cheap. Instead, frugal people don’t purchase the chocolate.

Cheap People Don’t Buy Necessities

Have you ever met someone who won’t go to the Dentist because it costs too much? How about parents who don’t plan to help their child with university expenses because of the cost? Those may be extreme examples, but cheap people may not even pay for the basics of life where frugal people look to get the best price they can.

Frugal People See the Higher Purpose

Frugal people love to save a pound, but that doesn’t mean that they aren’t generous with their money. They believe in giving to worthy causes. They will, however, exhaustively research charities to find ones that don’t have high administrative costs. Or they might forgo organised charity and give only to family and friends with a real need. Warren Buffett believes that giving kids too much money does more harm than good. Because of that, he has promised most of his fortune to the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation instead of to his children.

Cheap people may have a different mindset. They see their money as theirs and they may hold it for the rest of their life. Their children may speak of them as somebody who would rarely gave a gift or helped when help was needed. This may lead to a strained relationship with that parent. Money appears to mean more than the relationship with others.

The Bottom Line

I admit, there is no scientific way to distinguish between cheap and frugal people. There are cheap people we love and frugal people we dislike, but perhaps the best distinction comes from understanding value. Just because something is less expensive in price doesn’t necessarily make it cheaper once other costs are included.